Desogen and have noticed that

I just went on the pill and I started my 3rd week a day early because I lost a pill. So far I have noticed that I want food more, I feel bloated, and I have to keep running to the bathroom. It feels like I am always full with liquid. I am scared after reading this that I am going to gain a lot of weight, and I already had to change my diet because I have high cholesterol. Also When I first started the pill when I went to the bathroom it felt like my urin was on fire. It is really getting to me, and I heard that a lot of people became depressed and moody. I was already liked that. Before starting the pill I took Medroxyprogesterone because I was not getting my period, and then the doctor put me on this to help regulate it. I hope my sex drive doesnt start going down, but I do not see my boyfriend too often. What I did notice was the last time I seen him I started to cry, but this was before I started the pills. My doctor said that the other pills had the same medicine in it as the birth control that I am on now. I will be seeing my boyfriend for the first time since I started these pills in about a day and a half, and I have been getting some pains. I started this pill as soon as I got my period and I had some major stomach problems, so I took midol, and they go on and off. I hope the two medicines wont do any harm. But if I see any signs like everybody else had I will sure take myself off it. The doctor from my college put me on it, and now college is over and I am transfering, so I will not see this doctor anymore. I think I started at a bad time and have no idea what to do if something bad does happen like that.

I have been taken apri for about a week now. I started it the day I got my period because that is how I use to start desogen and I havent been on the pill for about 2yrs but I have such bad cramps from apri, it feels like the cramps you get if you have your period. Now I am freaking out cause my boyfriend and I had sex the first day I started the pill so I dont know if these are pregnancy side effects of just from the pill.I have had spotting and I have noticed that I am breaking out on my face. So far, I dont like apri at all. Now I am wondering if these cramps will ever go away.

I am not sure if this is a side effect or not. I have noticed that I have gained weight, I am not eating more than used to. Has anyone else expirenced weight gain?